Guilt vs. Shame

Guilt vs. Shame If an average of one third of American women have experienced abortion, why is it that you rarely hear anyone confess to this choice? Abortion is typically cloaked in secrecy due to the potential for shame and societal rejection. Post-abortive silence...

Truth vs. Condemnation

Truth vs. Condemnation “If she can’t embrace being called murderer, then God has not healed her heart!” the Facebook comment outlined on a shared post of one of my blogs entitled, “I Can Hear You.” In this particular blog, I outlined a time in my early ministry...

Abortion & Sexual Abuse

Abortion & Sexual Abuse “My wife had an abortion after she was raped,” a husband outlined during a ministry conversation. “She often says that the abortion was a worse experience physically than the rape. Is that normal?” Women who have experienced sexual abuse...

When a Christian Aborts

When a Christian Aborts “I don’t know how a Christian could ever abort their child,” a woman told me at a pregnancy center fund-raising event. This was just before I shared my abortion story with the audience. She had no idea that I was a Christian when I aborted my...