Basic Abortion Recovery
Instructor: Melissa Horton
Time: 2 hour 26 minutes
Basic Abortion Recovery
Join Melissa Horton in an empowering online workshop that transforms you into a beacon of God’s hope for those healing from abortion. This comprehensive two-part series, part of the Ramah Institute’s basic abortion recovery course, dives deep into the emotional stages of recovery—denial, shame, guilt, anger, forgiveness, mourning—and couples it with actionable insights on ministry management. You’ll master the art of fostering healing through engaging activities, craft impactful advertising strategies to reach the hearts in need, and learn to sustain a ministry that nurtures beyond the first steps of healing. Ready to make a difference? Enroll today in the Ramah Institute’s Basic Abortion Recovery course and begin your journey towards guiding the wounded hearts towards a peaceful tomorrow with God’s healing.
Instructor: Sydna Masse
Time: 1 hour 6 minutes
Engaging Abortion’s Wounded Hearts in a Post-Roe Era
Embark on a groundbreaking journey with Sydna Massé, a renowned expert in abortion recovery and the esteemed author of “Her Choice to Heal.” In her captivating online course, Sydna unveils the transformative shifts in abortion recovery and pregnancy center initiatives following the pivotal 2022 Roe v. Wade reversal. Dive deep into the evolution of abortion recovery, from historical insights to the latest strategies addressing medication abortion. This course offers a comprehensive overview of the changing landscape of global abortion recovery at a spiritual level, exploring innovative approaches and their profound impact on individuals touched by abortion. Arm yourself with cutting-edge knowledge and join Sydna in shaping the future of abortion recovery advocacy. Enroll now to be at the forefront of change and make a lasting difference in many lives.
Instructor: Sydna Masse
Time: 20 minutes
Help Wanted: Abortion Recovery Leaders who are NOT Post-Abortive
Unlock the path to making a meaningful impact in abortion recovery with Sydna Masse’s enlightening video course, specifically crafted for those who haven’t experienced abortion personally. This comprehensive guide covers everything from assessing your readiness to embracing the blessings of following God’s call. Be inspired by Biblical role models, learn through recommended experiences, master team-building strategies, and discover job experiences that amplify your contribution to the ministry. Whether you’re looking to join or lead abortion recovery efforts, this course equips you with the essential tools and motivation needed to support healing and make a real difference. Embrace this opportunity to transform lives and serve with purpose. Enroll now and start your journey towards becoming a pivotal part of abortion recovery initiatives.
Instructors: Cathy Plouff, Yvonne Brewer, Melissa Horton
Time: 1 hour 6 minutes
Abortion Recovery Healing Activities
Dive into a transformative learning experience with our training video, featuring a dynamic panel discussion led by renowned leaders Melissa Horton, Cathy Plouff, and Yvonne Brewer. Explore the world of “Healing Activities” that blend practical advice and spiritual wisdom for ministry programs. With their extensive expertise, this trio unveils interactive techniques and powerful tools for emotional healing, all while highlighting the miraculous role of God’s power. Tailored for ministry leaders, counselors, and anyone passionate about emotional recovery, this workshop arms you with the necessary resources and skills to make a profound impact in your community. Join us now by registering for this course and become a beacon of hope and transformation.
Her Choice to Heal Program Tutorials
Instructor: Sydna Masse, Karen Fifer, Melissa Horton
Time: 6 minutes
Welcome!
The Ramah International team of Sydna Masse, Karen Fifer and Melissa Horton share about their background and experience as well as the goals of the Her Choice to Heal Lesson tutorial video series.
Instructor: Sydna Masse, Karen Fifer, Melissa Horton
Time: 21 minutes
Lesson 1: Part 1: The First Night of Class
The First Night Dynamics
Unlock the power of healing with our exclusive video on Chapter 1 of the Her Choice to Heal Leader’s Guide. Dive into the essential first steps of the healing journey, covering critical dynamics such as the role of prayer, navigating initial anxieties, choosing the right ministry format, understanding timelines, the impact of sharing your testimony, and the importance of new leaders observing groups. This video is a must-watch for anyone ready to begin or guide others through the transformative process of healing.
Instructor: Sydna Masse, Karen Fifer, Melissa Horton
Time: 20 minutes
Lesson 1: Part 2: The First Night of Class
Elevate your leadership impact with our dynamic second video from Lesson One, crafted to guide you through the pivotal moment of sharing leader testimonies alongside women’s own abortion stories in the second meeting. This video is packed with essential strategies, including preparing participants to share their stories, managing timeframes, innovative ice-breaker ideas, the strategic use of nametags, ensuring confidentiality, organizing directory information, integrating healing activities, handling administrative forms, and concluding with the power of prayer. Perfect for anyone leading healing groups, this video is your key to facilitating a transformative sharing experience.
Instructor: Sydna Masse, Karen Fifer, Melissa Horton
Time: 37 minutes
Lesson 2: What is Abortion PTSD?
Dive into the heart of healing, where our expert team navigates the critical evolution of terminology from “Post-Abortion Syndrome (PAS)” to the now widely recognized and destigmatized “Abortion PTSD.” Our video covers a comprehensive range of tools and techniques designed to support this journey, including the Abortion PTSD Assessment test, effective use of prayer and ice-breakers, homework review, enhancing listening skills, providing comfort, optimal room setup, documenting group discussions, engaging activities, and homework assignments. Whether you’re a seasoned professional or new to the field, this video equips you with the knowledge to facilitate healing and bring solace to those affected by abortion PTSD.
Instructor: Karen Fifer
Time: 20 minutes
Lesson 3: A Wall of Denial
Discover the path to healing with our enlightening video on the “Wall of Denial” in abortion recovery. Karen Fifer presents in this concise guide sheds light on the distinct experiences of denial faced by individuals who have undergone b0th surgical and/or medication abortions, offering a deep understanding of this emotional barrier. It emphasizes the unique nature of denial, highlighting that overcoming it requires divine intervention, not merely human effort. Additionally, the video clarifies the critical difference between shame and guilt, reassuring viewers that perpetual shame is not a message from God. This resource is an invaluable tool for anyone helping others navigate the emotional aftermath of an abortion, providing essential guidance and a message of hope for moving forward
Instructor: Melissa Horton
Time: 26 minutes
Lesson 4: Bitter Roots: Anger
Join Melissa Horton in her compelling video presentation, Bitter Roots: Anger, where she explores the multifaceted nature of anger associated with abortion experiences. Dive deep into understanding divine anger, unraveling resentment towards others, and addressing self-directed anger. This video introduces the transformative healing activity “Draw Lines and Name Your Angry Roots,” guiding viewers through the emotional complexities surrounding an abortion decision. Gain insights into helping individuals manage feelings of anger towards influencers of the abortion choice and engage in healing exercise designed to foster personal healing and emotional freedom. This essential resource offers a lifeline to anyone seeking to overcome the challenges of post-abortion emotions, promising a journey towards peace and liberation. Don’t miss this opportunity to embark on a path of recovery and self-discovery.
Instructor: Sydna Masse, Karen Fifer, Melissa Horton
Time: 32 minutes
Lesson 5: The Heart of the Matter: Forgiveness
Dive into the transformative journey with our latest video covering Chapter 5 of the Her Choice to Heal Abortion Recovery Program – The Heart of the Matter: Forgiveness. Learn about the profound impact of receiving forgiveness from God, the liberating process of forgiving your past self who faced the abortion decision, and the healing steps towards forgiving others involved. This course offers a compassionate, in-depth exploration aimed at nurturing your path to forgiveness and recovery.
Instructor: Sydna Masse, Karen Fifer, Melissa Horton
Time: 28 minutes
Lesson 6: A River of Tears: Grieving Your Loss & Shattering Sexual Soul Ties
The team discusses overall grieving issues. Many are afraid to begin to cry and may not realize they have been mourning this lost child all along the path since their abortion. Triggers of grief may follow them for the rest of their lives. But it will be a “softer” grief if the majority of mourning is accomplished.
The discussion then turns to the topic of Shattering Sexual Soul Ties and the benefits of doing this work as part of the healing sessions.
Sydna recommends watching the workshop “Shattering Sexual Soul Ties” which is part of this course.
Time: 24 minutes
Lesson 7: Joy Comes in the Mourning & Memorial Services
This video starts out with the following Scripture passage – Isaiah 43:18-19:
Do not remember the former things,
Nor consider the things of old.
Behold, I will do a new thing,
Now it shall spring forth;
Shall you not know it?
I will even make a road in the wilderness
And rivers in the desert.
The team discusses naming and memorializing aborted children as part of the healing process. The honoring service will be in place of class the following week. This video provides various ways you can honor children outside of a regular memorial-type service. Confidentiality requires that the group must provide their full permission to invite outsiders to these services.
The team then discusses naming these lost children, giving an identity to these lost children. Sydna and Melissa share their stories of how God gave them a name for their child. Also included is direction that they can write a letter to God to give to their child in heaven as well as the activity of writing a letter to them from God.
Sydna discusses the client-focused “Heaven’s Hope” video which is good to assign or play during class. It is located on HerChoicetoHeal.com – Week 7, Lesson 1.
Instructor: Sydna Masse, Karen Fifer, Melissa Horton
Time: 13 minutes
Lesson 8: Last Meeting with the Group
In this video, Sydna, Melissa, and Karen discuss the last meeting after the honoring service. The overall goal is simply having a debriefing about the Honoring Service.
They discuss Sydna’s aftercare program, Beyond Regret: Living Victoriously in Christ After Abortion, available at this link – https://herchoicetoheal.com/product/beyond-regret/. This book can be done individually, or the group can continue to meet and go through this program.
Also discussed is the idea of group members becoming future ministry leaders. Also included is the optional Chapter 9 – Sharing the Secret of Abortion – which is featured on Module 9 – Sharing the Secret. It provides some steps women should take who feel called to share their abortion secret in public.
Instructor: Sydna Masse, Karen Fifer
Time: 10 minutes
Abortion Recovery Resources
Sydna Masse and Karen Fifer discuss several Ramah International resources for other areas of abortion recovery. These include:
Boundless Light: Discovering Peace When Someone You Love Chose Abortion
Legacy Lost: Healing Abortion’s Heartache in Grandparents
Her Choice to Heal Retreat
Beyond Regret: Living Victoriously in Christ After Abortion
Journey in Ramah Daily Devotional
From the Conference
Instructor: Sydna Masse
Time: 60 minutes
Overcoming Abortion Judgement
Join Sydna Masse in this transformative video lesson designed to support those recovering from abortion. Discover how to help abortion’s wounded hearts navigate societal judgment and emotional wounds with empathy and insight. Learn to help them depersonalize harsh labels, adopt practical coping strategies, and gain spiritual perspectives on judgment and forgiveness.
This course is not just educational—it’s a journey towards empowerment, offering tools for resilience and understanding in the face of criticism. Embrace this opportunity to turn pain into power and find peace through faith-driven healing.
Instructor: Ramah Team
Time: 56 minutes
Questions & Answers
Instructor: Sydna Masse
Time: 1 hour 5 minutes
Forgiveness: Breaking the Chains
Instructor: Heather Molden
Time: 1 hour 8 minutes
Abortion and Breast Cancer
Explore the intricate link between abortion and breast cancer risks in this online course led by Heather Molden. This session provides a detailed examination of critical research, equipping you with the knowledge to handle sensitive health discussions effectively.
Lesson Highlights:
- Research Insights: Delve into studies on abortion’s potential impact on breast cancer risk.
- Biological Understanding: Learn about breast biology and the effects of early abortion.
- Empowered Discussions: Master handling conversations with empathy and factual clarity.
- Health Advocacy: Emphasize the importance of regular breast screenings and early detection.
Why Enroll:
- Expert Guidance: Benefit from Heather Molden’s expertise for reliable and compassionate information.
- Make Informed Decisions: Support informed health choices through a deep understanding of this complex issue.
Ideal for anyone seeking to enhance their capability in women’s health advocacy, this course empowers you to offer informed, empathetic guidance on abortion and breast cancer.
Instructor: Sydna Masse
Time: 52 minutes
Online Abortion Recovery at HerChoicetoHeal.com
Explore the transformative power of HerChoiceToHeal.com in this engaging online lesson, led by Sydna Massé, the visionary creator of this impactful resource. Launched in 2017, HerChoiceToHeal.com offers an interactive program that has supported countless individuals on their paths to healing after abortion.
In this concise session, you will:
- Understand the Structure of Healing: Delve into the nine meticulously designed modules of HerChoiceToHeal.com, each addressing different aspects of the abortion recovery process.
- Discover Content That Transforms: Learn about the powerful resources available on the website, crafted to provide a comprehensive, step-by-step path to healing.
- Learn Practical Integration: Receive actionable insights on incorporating this pioneering, free-to-access resource into your ministry’s outreach efforts, enhancing your support capabilities.
Join Sydna Massé as she provides expert guidance and shares the passion that drives this life-changing program. This lesson is ideal for anyone looking to expand their understanding of abortion recovery or enhance their ability to support others. Don’t miss this opportunity to connect with a community dedicated to healing and recovery.
Instructor: Sydna Masse
Time: 1 hour 4 minutes
Shattering Sexual Soul Ties
Instructor: Karen Fifer
Time: 36 minutes
Dismantling Guilt and Shame After Abortion
Instructor: Melissa Horton
Time: 47 minutes
The Little Toe of Anger
Instructor: Karen Fifer
Time: TBD
Reaching Abortion’s Extended Wounded
Discover the deep emotional impact of abortion on family and friends in our latest online course featuring Karen Fifer and Sydna Masse, based on Ramah International’s essential resources, Legacy Lost: Healing Abortion’s Heartache in Grandparents and Boundless Light: Finding Peace When Someone You Love Chose Abortion.
In this moving session, Karen shares her personal experience with her daughter’s abortion, drawing from her role at a pregnancy center where she guided women toward healing through God’s grace. Sydna discusses the “generational curse” of abortion in her family, providing insights into her discovery and healing journey from the ancestral impact of abortion.
Instructor: Sydna Masse
Time: 19 minutes
Heaven’s Hope
Experience a journey of hope and healing with our latest video, Heaven’s Hope, featuring the inspiring Sydna Massé. Dive into an uplifting narrative as Sydna shares her personal story of finding peace and solace after the loss of her child through abortion. This video is more than just a story; it’s a path to understanding and redemption.
Sydna takes you through her heartwarming journey of naming her lost child and honoring his memory in a poignant memorial service, a pivotal moment during her own abortion recovery class. This touching account is interwoven with an enlightening discussion about the destiny of our children’s souls after abortion, supported with Scriptural references. These passages beautifully illustrate what heaven is like and profoundly express God’s immense love for children.
Don’t miss this opportunity to witness a powerful story of redemption and hope on one of the most sensitive topics in the post-abortive experience. This video is not just a viewing experience; it’s a step towards finding peace and closure in the embrace of God’s love.
Instructor: Sydna Masse
Time: 22 minutes
Good Grief
Unlock the power of healing through tears with this video presentation, featuring Sydna Masse. In this presentation, Sydna addresses a common, yet often unspoken fear: the overwhelming grief associated with the loss of a child following an abortion. Many believe that if they allow themselves to cry, they might never stop, or worse, spiral into suicidal thoughts.
Sydna demystifies these fears, explaining how tears can emerge suddenly or years later due to the trauma of the abortion event. She delves into why some individuals find themselves inexplicably crying and how this can lead them to fear they are losing their mind, especially if they’re trying to forget the abortion ever happened.
More than just an exploration of grief, this video reveals the biological necessity of tears. Sydna emphasizes that avoiding the natural process of grieving can adversely affect our health, encouraging viewers to embrace their tears, emphasizing that crying is not only natural but beneficial.
This video is perfect for anyone who has experienced abortion or those who are working to help post-abortive individuals find God’s healing.
Instructors: Sydna Masse
Time: 11 minutes
Taming Triggers of Abortion Pain
Learn about overcoming triggers of abortion pain in this video by Sydna Masse which provides a transformative discussion on effective strategies to tame after abortion triggers.
Sydna’s approach is comprehensive and deeply empathetic, covering various methods including participation in an abortion healing class, seeking solace and guidance in Scripture, understanding and managing anger, and much more. Sydna shares her own journey, giving a firsthand account of how she successfully managed the triggers of her own abortion pain over the years.
This video is an invaluable resource for anyone struggling with the aftermath of abortion or who are working in abortion recovery ministry. Whether you are directly affected or supporting someone who is, Sydna’s guidance can help navigate the complex emotions and challenges that arise. Join Sydna on this journey of healing and empowerment and begin the transformative journey towards a calmer future with the help of the Holy Spirit.
Instructor: Sydna Masse
Time: 18 minutes
Why You Cannot Forget the Child You Lost to Abortion
Embark on a journey of profound understanding of abortion pain with this video presentation, Why You Cannot Forget the Child You Lost to Abortion. Sydna Masse shares her personal abortion story intertwined with the fascinating scientifically proved concept of “microchimerism.” This biological phenomenon sheds light on why so many find it impossible to fully forget the child they lost to abortion.
Sydna delves into the often unspoken aftermath of abortion, exploring why many women experience a strong desire to become pregnant again. She also addresses the sensitive issue of infertility after abortion. She shares the common emotional and spiritual struggles faced by those who are post-abortive, reaffirming that while there are consequences to the choice of abortion, God does not punish His children for it. Instead, she offers a message of God’s healing and unconditional love.
This video is an essential resource for anyone seeking emotional and spiritual healing after an abortion or a guiding light for those involved in helping someone in navigating the complex journey towards peace and acceptance.
Instructor: Sydna Masse
Time: 17 minutes
Recognizing Triggers of Abortion Pain
Unlock understanding to manage abortion pain with this essential video, Recognizing Triggers of Abortion Pain. Sydna Masse, a renowned expert in post-abortion healing, explores the various triggers that often ignite the pain associated with this choice.
Sydna delves into a range of typical triggers, from anniversary dates and sensory reminders like sounds and smells, to encountering people involved in the abortion decision, and even the impact of political discussions about the legality of abortion. She takes you through her journey of recognizing and coping with her abortion pain, offering a relatable and compassionate perspective.
Whether you’re personally experiencing post-abortion pain or supporting someone who is, this video is a crucial resource. Let Sydna’s expertise and personal story guide you through the complexities of abortion pain and lead you towards a path of healing, hope, and understanding.
Instructor: Sydna Masse
Time: 18 minutes
Forgiving Yourself After Abortion
Instructor: Sydna Masse
Time: 1 hr 10 minutes
Ministry Solitaire – Thriving Despite Burnout
This enlightening video delves into the challenges of ministry burnout and its impact on personal and family life, offering wisdom and strategies for resilience. Join Sydna Masse as she shares insights on thriving in the solitude of this calling, with practical advice on setting boundaries, weathering spiritual storms, and experiencing the joy of participating in God’s miracles.
Ministry Solitare unveils the often unseen, yet deeply significant role pregnancy center and abortion recovery individuals play in contemporary ministry. Witness the hidden struggles and triumphs of society’s reaction to your work in the field of “abortion” ministry, even in a church setting.
Whether you’re directly involved in this ministry or simply seeking to understand more, this video is a must-watch for anyone interested in the deeper facets of faith and service. This is a perfect video for pregnancy center in-service training.
Instructor: Sydna Masse
Time: 8 minutes
Sharing Abortion Clinic Information
Discover the transformative insights of Sharing Abortion Clinic Information in this video, featuring Sydna Masse. Dive into the crucial role pregnancy centers play in empowering individuals with the knowledge and support needed when facing decisions about abortion.
This video is a must-watch for pregnancy center workers about how to provide clients with an informed choice about abortion. Details include: the essential information needed on abortion procedures, sharing the significant emotional, physical, spiritual, and psychological impacts of abortion and how the center can support them at a personal level.
Additionally, explore vital information for men, preparing them for a potential visit to an abortion clinic. From ensuring the facility’s cleanliness to the importance of knowing the abortionist’s credentials, this guide doesn’t miss a beat. The presentation stresses the importance of not signing any documents that waive the clinic’s liability for care, the power of support, and the crucial role men play in these decisions.
Regardless of the procedure – medication or surgical – this video provides the insights needed to navigate these challenging decisions with pregnancy center clients using care, knowledge, and support.
Instructor: Sydna Masse
Time: 19 minutes
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Instructor: Sydna Masse
Time: 42 minutes
Sydna Masse Abortion Testimony
This video unveils the deeply personal and transformative story of Ramah International’s founder, Sydna Masse. Sydna opens up about her decision to undergo an abortion, the ensuing emotional turmoil, and her path to recovery and forgiveness. It’s a narrative that not only exposes the raw edges of pain and regret but also illuminates the profound strength of God to heal even this devastating wound.
Sydna’s candid recounting explores the complex dynamics of coercion by a partner, the escape into substance abuse, and the impact of her decision on her marriage and future family life. Yet, amidst these trials, she discovers the transformative power of the Holy Spirit, enabling her to forgive herself and those who influenced her decision.
This video is more than just a story; it’s an invitation to healing and understanding. For individuals who have gone through an abortion, it offers hope and the promise of God’s healing grace. For professionals and volunteers in pregnancy centers, it provides deep insights into comforting those grappling with the decision of abortion, potentially multiple times. And for abortion recovery leaders, it broadens the understanding of post-abortion trauma, equipping them to better serve those in need of guidance and empathy.
Watch Sydna Masse’s Abortion Testimony and be part of a journey that transcends despair, embracing the hope and healing power of faith. Whether you seek solace, insight, or inspiration, this video promises a powerful information that will broaden your understanding of post-abortion pain in a way that will help you assist these hearts.
Instructors: Sydna Masse
Time: 1 hour 10 minutes
Reaching Abortion Vulnerable Men
“Reaching Abortion-Vulnerable Men” is an essential video by Sydna Masse, spotlighting the pivotal role men play in abortion decisions. This resource is crucial for female pregnancy center teams seeking effective strategies to engage fathers, boyfriends, and brothers who influence these life-altering choices.
Sydna provides a detailed “how-to” approach, addressing the unique challenges of ministering to men. The video explores various topics crucial for enhancing outreach, such as understanding different male client types, tackling global male resentment within pregnancy centers, and promoting positive behavior.
This video is more than just an educational tool; it’s a mission to foster understanding and encourage men to contribute constructively to abortion decisions. It’s an invaluable resource for any pregnancy center team aiming to expand its impact and support women facing challenging situations with male partners.
Instructor: Sydna Masse
Time: 8 minutes
Taming Thanksgiving Triggers After Abortion
Navigating family gatherings after an abortion can be deeply challenging, stirring a mix of suppressed emotions and unresolved grief. This video explores the profound impact of these experiences, particularly during occasions like Thanksgiving when familial bonds are prominently celebrated. It addresses the complex emotions of sitting with relatives who may have influenced the abortion decision—whether through support or opposition. These interactions can reignite feelings of anxiety, shame, and sorrow, often silently endured.
This presentation also delves into the personal journey of grief following an abortion. It illustrates how continual reminders of the child that was lost can surface unexpectedly, influencing even the simplest family traditions. Yet, amidst these painful recollections, there is a pathway to healing.
This online presentation offers practical, compassionate advice for those struggling with these triggers, advocating for the therapeutic power of mourning, the support of prayer, and the creation of new, meaningful family traditions. Most importantly, it emphasizes the hope and restoration found in God’s unwavering grace and mercy, encouraging readers to seek His peace and healing. Join us in discovering how to transform pain into a journey towards emotional and spiritual renewal.
Instructor: Sydna Masse
Time: 10 minutes
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Time: 2 minutes
Denial After Abortion – Module 3/Chapter 3
This video serves as an essential introduction to the homework assignment for Week 3 in the Her Choice to Heal written abortion Recovery program (Module 3 on HerChoicetoHeal.com). It can be used to wrap up the week 2 session or assigned as part of the upcoming week’s homework.
In this session, we explore the metaphor of denial as a wall—constructed with bricks of guilt and shame, and reinforced by societal pressures—that women build in their hearts to shield themselves from the painful memories following an abortion. As part of Module 3 on HerChoicetoHeal.com, this video helps viewers identify and understand the layers of grief, avoidance, and emotional trauma that start accumulating from when abortion is first considered, continuing through the procedure, and adding over the years.
We discuss the gradual process of breaking down this wall, a journey that can often be revisited as hidden layers of denial are uncovered. This exploration is crucial for healing and understanding the deep-seated emotions associated with abortion.
Instructors: Sydna Masse
Time: 2 minutes
Joy Comes in the Mourning – Module 7/Chapter 8*
This video serves as the essential introduction for Chapter 8 homework in the “Her Choice to Heal” abortion recovery written course. As we continue through Chapter 8 (or Module 7 on HerChoicetoHeal.com), participants are reminded of the promise in Psalms 126:5-6 that sincere mourning will lead to joy and restoration in their faith journey. It can be used to wrap up the week’s session or assigned as part of the upcoming week’s homework.
This session addresses the stages of grief—denial, anger, depression, acceptance—highlighting that each person’s grieving process is unique and personal. The objective is not to “get over” grief but to actively work through it. Key therapeutic steps include naming the aborted child(ren), grieving their loss, and considering a memorial service to hand over this pain to God for profound healing.
Drawing from Isaiah 43:18-19, we are encouraged to let go of the past and embrace the new beginnings God offers. This chapter also provides insights into the potential heavenly reunion with an aborted child, explores triggers of post-abortion pain, and discusses strategies to manage these triggers effectively, aiding in the emotional healing process.
*NOTE: Please be aware that there is a difference in numbering between the “Her Choice to Heal” written program (including the book and recovery guide) and the modules available on HerChoicetoHeal.com. For example, “Joy Comes in the Mourning” is Module 7 on the website but is found in Chapter 9 of the book.
Instructor: Sydna Masse
Time: 2 minutes
Grieving Your Loss After Abortion – Module 6/Chapter 7*
This video serves as the essential introduction for Week 7’s homework in the “Her Choice to Heal” abortion recovery written program or Module 6 on HerChoicetoHeal.com. Here, we explore the powerful connection between grief and joy after abortion, inspired by the insights of Psalms 126:5-6, which promise that sincere mourning leads to joy and restoration. It can be used to wrap up the week’s session or assigned as part of the upcoming week’s homework.
The session delves into how grieving an aborted child can mix tears with laughter as participants reflect on poignant memories. It highlights the importance of embracing grief during significant moments—like anniversaries or while looking through old photos—to draw comfort and healing from God’s presence.
We also discuss the active engagement with grief, emphasizing that allowing tears to flow freely is crucial for healing. Additionally, Lamentations 2:18-19 guides our understanding of mourning as a divine pathway to restoration. This module, coupled with Chapter 7 of “Her Choice to Heal,” provides vital support to help participants navigate their grief and find the joy that awaits in God’s restoration process.
*NOTE: Please be aware that there is a difference in numbering between the “Her Choice to Heal” written program (including the book and recovery guide) and the modules available on HerChoicetoHeal.com. For example, “Grieving Your Loss” is Module 6 on the website but is found in Chapter 7 of the book.
Instructor: Sydna Masse
Time: 2 minutes
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Time: 3 minutes
Do I really need healing? Module 1, Lesson 4 at HerChoicetoHeal.com
This video explores a vital question: “Do I really need healing after an abortion?” Sydna Masse addresses this concern, making it an essential resource for those considering an abortion recovery program. In Module 1/Lesson 4, the “Abortion PTSD Assessment Test” helps individuals assess if they might be experiencing Abortion PTSD, indicated by affirming two or more questions related to their abortion.
Many find that memories of their abortion resurface unexpectedly, triggered by seeing children of a certain age, abortion anniversaries, or the due date of the child. These memories can evoke feelings of anxiety, fear, and sadness. The video encourages reflection on several questions: Are you reluctant to talk about abortion? Do you experience guilt, anger, or sadness when discussing it? Do changes in your relationships or behaviors, like increased substance use or mood swings, seem tied to your abortion?
If these issues resonate, taking the Abortion PTSD Assessment Test on HerChoicetoHeal.com can confirm their need for healing.
Instructors: Sydna Masse
Time: 1 minutes
What to Expect – HerChoicetoHeal.com – Module 1/Lesson 4
This video, part of Module 1/Lesson 4 on HerChoicetoHeal.com, addresses “What to Expect” during the abortion recovery process. It’s an ideal starting point for anyone considering joining an abortion recovery program.
Sydna Masse guides viewers through the varied emotional landscape that can emerge when confronting a past abortion: from tears and anger to moments of overwhelming feelings and eventual understanding. These reactions are typical and expected steps on the path to healing. The course offers a structured approach to help them address a past abortion decision, aiming for peace with themselves and reconciliation with God.
Since many may be unable to attend a physical program, this video also allows them the opportunity to contact the Ramah team to support their journey, providing personal discussions about the healing process whenever needed. This resource is designed for individual use but also offers direct support to enhance the healing experience.
Instructor: Sydna Masse
Time: 5 minutes
One Woman’s Story – Module 1/Lesson 1
This video, part of Module 1/Lesson 1 on HerChoicetoHeal.com, introduces viewers to Sydna Masse’s personal abortion story, providing a powerful starting point for those considering an abortion recovery program. It is a perfect way to introduce an abortion recovery program to those who confess this choice.
In a candid presentation, Sydna shares her journey from deep denial to transformative healing. After her abortion, Sydna grappled with avoidance, substance abuse, and overwhelming grief, especially on unrecognized significant dates like her child’s due date. Anger became her shield, hiding the pain until the birth of her living children and the death of a friend opened her heart to the loss she had buried.
This video outlines how Sydna’s realization of her abortion’s impact led her to seek help, discover Abortion PTSD, and eventually find solace and forgiveness through an abortion recovery program and her faith. Her story is a testament to the healing that awaits and a reminder that no one has to face this journey alone.
Instructor: Sydna Masse
Time: 39 minutes
Pregnancy Center Banquet Keynote
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Instructor: Sydna Masse
Time: 2 minutes
Understanding Abortion PTSD
This video, accessible via the Abortion PTSD button on HerChoicetoHeal.com, addresses the long-term emotional impacts of abortion trauma. Sydna Masse speaks directly to post-abortive individuals, sharing her personal experience as a teenager who chose abortion, and the complex emotions that follow.
Sydna highlights that many women live years without reflecting on their abortion, only to be suddenly overwhelmed by memories, imagining what life might have been like if their child had lived. These moments can trigger deep feelings of anger, fear, and anxiety, often kept as a closely held secret due to fear of judgment and shame.
This presentation delves into these challenges, suggesting that such experiences could be signs of Abortion PTSD or post-abortion syndrome. It encourages viewers to start Module 1 on HerChoicetoHeal.com to understand the impact of their abortion and begin a healing journey.
Sydna’s testimony reassures viewers that healing is possible, emphasizing that if she could find peace and forgiveness through God, others can too.
Instructors: Sydna Masse
Time: 6 minutes
Abortion PTSD Symptoms – Module 3/Lesson 9 on HerChoicetoHeal.com
Featured in Module 3/Lesson 9 of HerChoicetoHeal.com, this video is an essential resource for those starting an abortion recovery program. It serves as an introduction, helping participants at the outset of their recovery journey to identify and understand the symptoms of Abortion PTSD.
Sydna Masse directly addresses viewers, encouraging them to reflect on their life post-abortion and to identify symptoms that may be affecting them. Viewers are invited to add their personal feelings to this list to tailor it to their unique experiences.
This video aims to help viewers recognize these signs in their lives, marking a first step towards healing.
Instructor: Sydna Masse
Time: 26 minutes
Sydna Massé Abortion Story – Module 1/Lesson 3/Chapter 1
Join Sydna Masse in Module 1/Lesson 3 of our HerChoicetoHeal.com course and Chapter 1 of the “Her Choice to Heal” program as she shares her poignant abortion experience. With sensitivity, she discusses the emotional impact from discovery to decision and aftermath, without graphic details. This video equips abortion recovery leaders with deeper empathy and is also ideal for the first session of in-person meetings, especially if leaders are not post-abortive. It’s a comforting resource for those considering an abortion recovery program, helping them feel understood and less isolated.
Note: Emotional and spiritual impacts are profound in both medication and surgical abortions. Cases requiring subsequent surgical intervention highlight the complex emotions associated with experiencing two procedures for a single loss, supporting viewers in their healing journey.
Instructor: Sydna Masse
Time: 34 minutes
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Instructor: Sydna Masse
Time: 19 minutes
Ramah International Seminar Highlight Video
Dive into critical topics with Sydna Masse in this video featuring select clips from Ramah International’s abortion-vulnerable seminar series. Sydna draws from her extensive ministry experience to discuss the media’s influence on post-abortion individuals, strategies for addressing past abortions on intake forms, engaging abortion-vulnerable men, understanding the lifecycle of an abortion decision, recognizing the roles of abortion influencers, and the concept of secondary levels abortion PTSD. This compilation is essential for enhancing the effectiveness of pregnancy center and abortion recovery ministries, providing viewers with valuable insights to better support those in need.
Instructors: Sydna Masse
Time: 2 minutes
How Can I Forgive?
Reaching Abortion-Vulnerable Men is a groundbreaking video that casts a spotlight on the often-overlooked role of men in abortion decisions. Narrated by Sydna Masse, this presentation delves into the critical influence fathers, boyfriends, and brothers have on a woman’s choice regarding abortion, revealing that many such decisions are shaped far from the counseling rooms of pregnancy centers, in spaces as common as locker rooms.
Sydna equips female pregnancy center teams with the knowledge and tools necessary to effectively engage this key demographic. By addressing the unique challenges and dynamics of ministering to men, she offers a comprehensive “how-to” strategy aimed at enhancing the outreach and impact of these teams on abortion-vulnerable men.
The video covers a wide array of crucial topics, including understanding the different types of male clients, navigating the complexities of global male resentment within pregnancy center contexts, and fostering positive, heroic behavior among men. Additionally, it provides valuable insights into supporting women who may be dealing with challenging situations involving male partners.
Reaching Abortion Vulnerable Men is not just a video; it’s a mission to bridge gaps, foster understanding, and promote positive action. It’s an essential tool for any pregnancy center team looking to broaden its impact, encouraging men to play a constructive role in these life-altering decisions.
Instructor: Sydna Masse
Time: 1 minutes
Will God Forgive Me? –
Join Sydna Masse in this enlightening video as she provides a concise overview of the comforting truth that no sin is beyond God’s forgiveness and healing. Discover how God can transform even the deepest regrets into sources of glory. This video serves as a powerful reminder of divine mercy, ideal for those seeking reassurance and spiritual healing.
Instructor: Sydna Masse
Time: 5 minutes
Abortion PTSD Symptoms-2
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Instructor: Sydna Masse
Time: 21 minutes
Fighting the Idea of Addressing a Past Abortion
This video unveils the deeply personal and transformative story of Ramah International’s founder, Sydna Masse. Sydna opens up about her decision to undergo an abortion, the ensuing emotional turmoil, and her path to recovery and forgiveness. It’s a narrative that not only exposes the raw edges of pain and regret but also illuminates the profound strength of God to heal even this devastating wound.
Sydna’s candid recounting explores the complex dynamics of coercion by a partner, the escape into substance abuse, and the impact of her decision on her marriage and future family life. Yet, amidst these trials, she discovers the transformative power of the Holy Spirit, enabling her to forgive herself and those who influenced her decision.
This video is more than just a story; it’s an invitation to healing and understanding. For individuals who have gone through an abortion, it offers hope and the promise of God’s healing grace. For professionals and volunteers in pregnancy centers, it provides deep insights into comforting those grappling with the decision of abortion, potentially multiple times. And for abortion recovery leaders, it broadens the understanding of post-abortion trauma, equipping them to better serve those in need of guidance and empathy.
Watch Sydna Masse’s Abortion Testimony and be part of a journey that transcends despair, embracing the hope and healing power of faith. Whether you seek solace, insight, or inspiration, this video promises a powerful information that will broaden your understanding of post-abortion pain in a way that will help you assist these hearts.
Instructors: Sydna Masse
Time: 1 minutes
How Do You Know You Need Healing After Abortion
Reaching Abortion-Vulnerable Men is a groundbreaking video that casts a spotlight on the often-overlooked role of men in abortion decisions. Narrated by Sydna Masse, this presentation delves into the critical influence fathers, boyfriends, and brothers have on a woman’s choice regarding abortion, revealing that many such decisions are shaped far from the counseling rooms of pregnancy centers, in spaces as common as locker rooms.
Sydna equips female pregnancy center teams with the knowledge and tools necessary to effectively engage this key demographic. By addressing the unique challenges and dynamics of ministering to men, she offers a comprehensive “how-to” strategy aimed at enhancing the outreach and impact of these teams on abortion-vulnerable men.
The video covers a wide array of crucial topics, including understanding the different types of male clients, navigating the complexities of global male resentment within pregnancy center contexts, and fostering positive, heroic behavior among men. Additionally, it provides valuable insights into supporting women who may be dealing with challenging situations involving male partners.
Reaching Abortion Vulnerable Men is not just a video; it’s a mission to bridge gaps, foster understanding, and promote positive action. It’s an essential tool for any pregnancy center team looking to broaden its impact, encouraging men to play a constructive role in these life-altering decisions.
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